My biggest concern for today is: How to deal with a childish Bitch even if it's kind of unusual to associate a "Bitch" with "Childish"
A bitch is mean, likes to critic and to remind you of what's wrong in your miserable life, loves to talk behind people's back, enjoys making fun of you in front of you with her sneaky little smile... But a childish Bitch does all of this in a childish way that makes you wonder if she's a retarted. She smiles and talk to you as if you were her BFF, the next morning she reminds that she's mad at you because you forgot to tell her some meaning less detail, she start to act bitchy, in the afternoon she still be mad but she tries to be a "Bitchy Bigger person" in a childish way and finally she returns to the starting point.
So, how to handle her?
Ignore? that will be considered a defeat even if it's a the best solution ...
React to her provocations? Naaah, bad idea...
Act like it's not a big deal and nothing really important happened? Might and might not work, and I will say "Will not work"...
So, what should I do?
I my case it's a bit complicated since I don't like to talk a lot and I don't tend to give speeches about what I feel or what I think about her comments. Any other girl (tunisian girl of course!) will start a fight and stand for her self, but, sadely I don't.
The best solution for me is to ignore and re-create some boundaries at least in this way I'll be protected because every tiny information is used against you.
Creating boundaries? ok for me but keeping them it's a long term hard work and I really don't know if I can pull that off...
In addition to this I think that acting surprised when she starts to begin an argument, because saying "manich féhma enti 3lech m3ankcha fi 7kéya kima hedhi elli ma testahelech na3mlou menha 9awe9, w manich most3adda bech ndhaya3 wa9ti w n5amem fiha men aslou" might make her think "heyya rzina, wena 9a3da netfoure5?!" and most important... DON'T LOOSE YOUR TEMPER IN FRONT OF A BITCH!!!
she WILL enjoy her "accomplishment" thanks to you.
Next...
A bitch is mean, likes to critic and to remind you of what's wrong in your miserable life, loves to talk behind people's back, enjoys making fun of you in front of you with her sneaky little smile... But a childish Bitch does all of this in a childish way that makes you wonder if she's a retarted. She smiles and talk to you as if you were her BFF, the next morning she reminds that she's mad at you because you forgot to tell her some meaning less detail, she start to act bitchy, in the afternoon she still be mad but she tries to be a "Bitchy Bigger person" in a childish way and finally she returns to the starting point.
So, how to handle her?
Ignore? that will be considered a defeat even if it's a the best solution ...
React to her provocations? Naaah, bad idea...
Act like it's not a big deal and nothing really important happened? Might and might not work, and I will say "Will not work"...
So, what should I do?
I my case it's a bit complicated since I don't like to talk a lot and I don't tend to give speeches about what I feel or what I think about her comments. Any other girl (tunisian girl of course!) will start a fight and stand for her self, but, sadely I don't.
The best solution for me is to ignore and re-create some boundaries at least in this way I'll be protected because every tiny information is used against you.
Creating boundaries? ok for me but keeping them it's a long term hard work and I really don't know if I can pull that off...
In addition to this I think that acting surprised when she starts to begin an argument, because saying "manich féhma enti 3lech m3ankcha fi 7kéya kima hedhi elli ma testahelech na3mlou menha 9awe9, w manich most3adda bech ndhaya3 wa9ti w n5amem fiha men aslou" might make her think "heyya rzina, wena 9a3da netfoure5?!" and most important... DON'T LOOSE YOUR TEMPER IN FRONT OF A BITCH!!!
she WILL enjoy her "accomplishment" thanks to you.
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