You will be mine, soon...

Et le moral is Up Up!

My tunisian Wedding: My must have part 1.

أيا مرحبا بيكم!!!

إليوم بش نحكي على زهاز لعروسة. وقت إلي حددت التاريخ متع العرس ما كنتش نعرف شنوا لازم نهز فال-trousseau متاعي. رساتلي نسئل البنات إلي نعرفهم عرسوا واللي صحاب معاهم (فالأخر طلعوا زوز بنات، أكهو...)

وحسب المعطيات إلي تحصلت عليها، هذي "the list"




1-La lingerie: d'après mes recherche vous aurez besoin d'une nuisette blanche en soie walla satin pour la fameuuuuse, hot, sensual, torride nuit et d'au minimum (c'est ce qu'on m'a dit, hein...) 30 ensembles soutien gorge et culotte/string...




2-les draps w les linges de lit: minimum un drap blanc avec des perles, des trucs hyper brillant avec de la dentelle (genre "look at me, I'm fancy"), des couvre lit été (min 2) w des couvre lit pour l'hiver.

bien sur à part les ملاحف، غشاوات المخادد والجراري de différents couleurs please...




3- Les serviettes et les capes de bain: pour les capes de bain minimum 2 :un pour la jeune mariée et un pour son époux. Les serviettes le minimum requis et de 2 de chaque taille.




NB: N'achetez RIEN en NOIR sauf si vous tenez absolument à entendre le discours " ووووه يا شوووومي عروسة راك !!! مش باهي لكحل!!!! فألو خايب!!!!" comme quoi c'est la couleur d'un article quelconque qui décidera de votre bonheur ....... إدهبي وهف!!!




4- les parfums et les coffrets beauté y compris les soins de jour, soins de nuits, les shampoings, les après shampoings, les crèmes hydratantes, les baumes parfumés pour le corps, les gels douches, les gommages, les soins pédicures et les soins manucures.

concernant le maquillage, ça ne sert à absolument rien d'acheter une valise walla un coffret maquillage pour ne pas l'utiliser ensuite, and trust me, tu ne l'utiliseras jamais. et même si tu l'utilise, ça porteras juste sur 1 voir 2% de ce coffret, donc, NO.

5- un coffret de bijou

6- un sèche cheveu ou un lisseur

7- une trousse pour le maquillage

8- Des montres: une au moins classy and chic et 3 ou 4 casual.

9- et bien sur les habits de la mariée: j'ai suivi un mini guide que j'ai trouvé sur pinterest, au moins je ne ferais pas du sur-stockage de 7wéyej u_u

must have 1

must have 2





أيا يا جماعة انا جاني النوم

، تو نكمللكم مبعد مغامراتي واكتشافاتي في

le-must have du تروسو!!!

et le moral is up up !

Chnowa 5ir men tatli3 el moral? absolutely 7atta chay!

Tabda 9a3da fédda tetffarej fi pinterest walla youtube walla 7atta hak les pages facebook mta3 les el bnétta elli ken tal9a tkawrelhom b ryous'hom, w etti7 3ala ka3bet inspirational quote. Mel loul t9oul "Tiiiiih, dharbén lougha" ama ki tji t5amem binek w bin rou7ek w t5arrej el tfalsif elli fik twalli t9oul "well, this can help" and it does help.

Mo55 el hadra, sa3at ma test7a99ech tabda t5ammem lechkoun tfarragh 9albek walla ech ta3mel bech tetfarhed. Barra ched 3ammek google, 7ott recherche "quotes" w 3oum ba7rek! Ahawka famma choun kifek t7at fard situation w bdé ych3er 3la 3dhébou w élémou w a7assissou !

et le moral is Up Up !!!

My biggest concern for today is: How to deal with a childish Bitch even if it's kind of unusual to associate a "Bitch" with "Childish"
A bitch is mean, likes to critic and to remind you of what's wrong in your miserable life, loves to talk behind people's back, enjoys making fun of you in front of you with her sneaky little smile... But a childish Bitch does all of this in a childish way that makes you wonder if she's a retarted. She smiles and talk to you as if you were her BFF, the next morning she reminds that she's mad at you because you forgot to tell her some meaning less detail, she start to act bitchy, in the afternoon she still be mad but she tries to be a "Bitchy Bigger person" in a childish way and finally she returns to the starting point.

So, how to handle her?
Ignore? that will be considered a defeat even if it's a the best solution ...
React to her provocations? Naaah, bad idea...
Act like it's not a big deal and nothing really important happened? Might and might not work, and I will say "Will not work"...
So, what should I do?
I my case it's a bit complicated since I don't like to talk a lot and I don't tend to give speeches about what I feel or what I think about her comments. Any other girl (tunisian girl of course!) will start a fight and stand for her self, but, sadely I don't.

The best solution for me is to ignore and re-create some boundaries at least in this way I'll be protected because every tiny information is used against you.
Creating boundaries? ok for me but keeping them it's a long term hard work and I really don't know if I can pull that off...
In addition to this I think that acting surprised when she starts to begin an argument, because saying "manich féhma enti 3lech m3ankcha fi 7kéya kima hedhi elli ma testahelech na3mlou menha 9awe9, w manich most3adda bech ndhaya3 wa9ti w n5amem fiha men aslou" might make her think "heyya rzina, wena 9a3da netfoure5?!" and most important... DON'T LOOSE YOUR TEMPER IN FRONT OF A BITCH!!!
she WILL enjoy her "accomplishment" thanks to you.

Next...

Starting my own firework?

Impressionnant? Not really...
Utile? je ne le sais toujours pas...
Funny? That's what I hope for...

Mo55 el hadra, tal3etli fi mo55i, 9olt brabbi 3lech ma na3malech blog! No5rom fih kima n7eb, na7ki fih 3alli n7eb, n7ott fih elli n7eb ba3delli el facebook ma walla yasla7 el chay wel 3béd t3as3es 3la b3adh'ha. kammel manich maghrouma b hal instagram w twitter w ma téb3ou, blog yodh'herli easy w b an9es takssir batata.

Aya méla mara7bé bikom (ken to7tou bih el blog) fi 5ormouloujiyéti !